She was a long-time staff writer at New York magazine and a daily book critic for the NYT. Her own book is the bestseller, "All Joy and No Fun: The Paradox of Modern Parenthood." She’s now a staff writer at The Atlantic, where she won a 2022 Pulitzer for “What Bobby McIlvaine Left Behind,” a story about 9/11. But in this episode we primarily focus on her essay, “It’s Your Friends Who Break Your Heart.”